Being loving or expressing love to others transforms us into compassionate people more able to live life in real time.

A loving attitude tends to eclipse more ego-centered behavior that eventually can wind up coming out as ruminations about things that don’t make us very happy.

Just as important is to love oneself.

The deficit of self-esteem is growing to epidemic proportions.

Proceed carefully.  If you rely on someone else to bolster how you feel about yourself, you can become co-dependent to them.

Work this list today:

1. Forgive yourself. 
2. Make positive statements about you and back them up with evidence. 
3. Look past material things to define who you are.
4. Accept yourself as who you are today (you can always be better tomorrow). 
5. Have the courage to be who you are with everyone.
6. Think of 3 positive ways to describe yourself. 
7. Practice receiving love from others. 
8. Do what you love. 
9. Treat yourself no less than the way you would treat a puppy dog. 

10. Never compare yourself to others. 

11. Always do your best but stop trying to be perfect

Even doing one of these things better can be transformational.

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