I attended a seminar in Phoenix a few years back by Dr. Amit Sood, a Mayo Clinic physician and author of the book Stress-Free Living.
He jolted everyone when as one of his helpful suggestions he said “don’t postpone joy”.
I sat there guilty as charged.
Perhaps you’re like me. And it’s not that I’m not grateful for the good things (and sometimes even bad) that happen.
It’s that I tend not to take anytime celebrating the good things that happen – even the little things.
I just move on to whatever challenge is next.
So here’s the fix.
When you do something good – or great or even when you step up and confront a problem. Celebrate it.
Here’s a few ways:
- Tell someone about it.
- Take time to congratulate and reward yourself.
- Credit others who may have helped you achieve joy. If you go for a walk with your child without cellphones and talk and find yourselves laughing and having a good time, thank that person for the laughs you had together.
- Look for opportunities to become aware of the joyful things that happen in your life.
Too frequently we humans are better at agonizing over perceived problems, which makes us postpone joy.
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