Many of us try hard not to be judgmental of others, but we often bold ourselves to a different standard.

• The only thing you want to compare yourself to is yourself yesterday.
• Everything else is meaningless.
• Avoid the comparison trap because the goal is to feel good about yourself not how you stack up to someone else which is totally irrelevant.
• Admire the positive and admirable traits of others without feeling envy or low self-confidence in comparison.

Avoid inflating others by putting yourself down.