Before I give a speech, I stand up as straight as a ramrod, take deep breaths and stride forward to the stage.
As a radio program director I often asked my djs to stand up for their shifts – at least at the beginning of their shows to emote confidence and power.
Now I know why.
Amy Cuddy, a social psychologist at Harvard Business School has done research on “power poses” that have clearly helped people from all walks of life, in just about every career and some who have even been damaged by bullying, mental illness, sexual assault or physical limitations.
I am anxious to share this with you and hope you will pass it along to friends, children and loved ones:
- Making yourself BIG for only two minutes changes the brain in ways that build courage, reduce anxiety and promote leadership skills – tested techniques that really work. Get up and stand tall.
- Stretching out comfortable in a desk chair – feet on the desk, fingers held behind your head – increases testosterone by 20% and better yet, lowered the stress hormone cortisol by 25%. Just that one move. Think about how we sit slumped over our laptops, iPads and phones all day long. It may not be convenient, but sitting straight up at a desktop computer breeds more confidence.
- Instead as Cuddy puts it “fake it until you become it”.
Cuddy: “Let your body tell you you’re powerful and deserving and you become more present, enthusiastic and authentically yourself”.
We’re always looking for high priced ways to take a pill or attend classes and even seek professional help to mitigate anxiety. Try this two-minute approach today and share your comments.
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