When people reject us – for any reason — they have discovered how vulnerable we are.
Somewhere in time we have assigned a part of our self-esteem to them. In fact, they may have stolen it from us. The person who on their own told us how good we look can also take it away if and when they realize that we need them to keep telling us.
Strong self-esteem comes from being okay with the way we are – liking it, accepting it, being proud of it. That is the way to reduce the possibility of being rejected.
In fact, even compliments can be a setup for future rejection if we ourselves do not believe the compliment. So when you hear something nice or something kind, you should use that comment as a reaffirmation of something you already believe.
It is virtually impossible to reject someone who is happy with the way they are and who never lets another person provide self-esteem that we ourselves do not already possess.
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