Anger is so destructive.

The person who has the anger melts down and becomes a person that he or she may not really want to be while the person this anger is directed at is hurt by it.

To let go of anger see it as a gift to yourself.

Why let another person hold you hostage and stimulate your anger in return?  Because that is what is going to happen as you react, defend and sometimes even strike back.

As difficult as this can be, there is a way to begin.

Try to see the anger spewing from another in a more compassionate way.  For example:  “She must really be at war within herself to alienate me and those she loves in this hurtful way”.

That one act of compassion – if you can muster it – allows you to step back and see the pain the angry person is inflicting on themselves not just you.

Forgiveness also works and keep in mind that forgiving does not mean forgetting.  It means moving on with your life even if the other person is stuck on their anger.

For me nothing helps dealing with the misappropriated anger of another better than reminding myself that I will not let my life be hijacked by the unresolved issues of another person.

I feel sorry for them and feel grateful that I can immediately move on with life.

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