In my NYU “Stress-free Living & Working in the Music Industry” class, we do stretching exercises – not the physical ones, the psychological type designed to build mental resilience.
One week we gave gratitude to someone important in our life in writing.
The assignment mandated that each student choose a person for whom they were grateful for something and then give some specific examples – this was then sent without further explanation.
The response was both expected and unexpected – the student “gratefuls” heard back with warm and even touching expressions of appreciation.
Why learn to express gratitude?
Gratitude is a building block of becoming more resilient.
Another week as I shared earlier, we gave up our phones and cut social media usage – the professor included and if there is one thing I learned, it is that I can control my digital devices, they don’t have to control me.
Another stretching exercise was to put into writing something that represents a pat on the back for something they did right – no negative talk allowed.
And next week, we will take a step toward learning how to forgive.
Living in a complicated age requires on the spot retraining of the brain – so if you’re interested, try one of our exercises then grade yourself. (I’ll give you an A for trying).
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