We can be addicted to drugs, alcohol, work, sex, food, spending money we don’t have by shopping. 

We can even become addicted to religion.

For many years Alcoholics Anonymous has been a fabulous resource for many people looking to overcome their addictions.

But the essence of changing a life around is one word.

Choice.

At some point, if we’re really serious about dealing with our problems, we have to make a choice – a decision, a new plan to forge ahead.

And when we’re tempted to go back, we have to constantly remember that life isn’t living us, we are living life – in other words, we are knowingly making a choice.

This concept goes beyond addiction.  It also applies to success and happiness.

We may be downtrodden, but we have a choice to fight back.

We may have gotten the worst break and our lives are off track, but it is up to us if we are going to focus on the one thing that will bring us back – the choice.

When people allow their lives to go bad, they cannot fix it with co-dependent people surrounding them.

They need to face up to the fact that if they don’t make a choice, their lives will never change.

Choice is a freeing thing.

But it is also, an instant confidence builder. 

Finally resolve the issues that you have been wrestling with – choose a path – and just the act of making that choice will palpably make you feel more confident and happy.