You can’t think yourself into enthusiasm.
It must be an action.
When I taught the Dale Carnegie Course, one of the things that I wanted each student speaker to get was a rousing round of applause after their two-minute talk.
Simply asking audiences to be enthusiastic almost never works.
So I would have them stand on their feet and repeat after me five times: “Act enthusiastic and you’ll be enthusiastic” (louder each successive time).
When they took their seats again, the ambience in the room was noisier. And after each one of their classmates finished their talk, an enthusiastic round of applause followed.
This doesn’t just apply in a classroom.
Before I walk into an office for a meeting, I remind myself to act enthusiastic so I’ll be enthusiastic.
Before a speech or presentation, I get up and move around in a physically animated way. I want to be in motion.
When I greet people, they just don’t get a limp hand, they get an up-tempo hello.
It goes even further.
Greet family members with enthusiasm that you physically feel before you’re in their company.
No one can resist an enthusiastic person and all it takes is to remember this mantra: “Act enthusiastic and you’ll be enthusiastic”.
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