“Your brain is like Velcro for negative experiences but Teflon for positive”.
The author Rick Hanson said this and it rings true.
Bad experiences tend to stick around somehow hanging onto us.
Good one’s flow through us too quickly.
Humans have a negativity bias probably from our hunter/gatherer days where the species was constantly on the lookout for danger. This bred fear into us where we learn to imagine things will be worse than we expect and discount our ability to deal with them.
By spending even a few minutes a day reviewing the good in our lives, we tend to become more positive.
Negativity is a learned response that we can overcome by reprogramming the brain when good things happen and passing the related good thoughts through our mind – even for a minute – over and over again.
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