After living in my neighborhood for 13 years, my wife and I finally got to meet one neighbor we hadn’t met. The conversation was pleasant, genuinely enjoyable and accidental as it happened by chance outside.
But at the end our neighbor who was a real estate agent said “if you ever want to sell your house, call me”. Maybe I’m over sensitive and I am sure they did not mean anything by it but a verbal calling card about leaving the neighborhood was at the very least bad timing.
It reminds me how important it is to make people feel welcome, to generate positive vibes. I’m not selling my house and I haven’t seen my new acquaintance since, but I’m ready to roll out the welcome mat. Making people feel like you are excited to see them is a gift that we are all capable of giving.
The lasting power of kindness, warmth, and making someone feel truly welcome is summed up so well by Maya Angelou: “… people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
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