Why do we let people lure us into skirmishes that drag us away from the person we want to be?

Winning the battle is not winning the war.

If you spend more time getting someone back for what they did to you, you lose the war and stand a good chance of losing the battle they picked with you.

And there are likely to be more meaningless but emotional fights.

To win more and lose less, ask yourself – what is my goal?

And if you decide that your goal is to be the fine person you are, a good spouse, a loving parent or a loyal friend, let no person distract you.

Remove the imaginary button that many of us wear that says, “Push” to force us to react instead of respond.

Winning doesn’t mean besting another person.

It doesn’t mean beating someone out of a job, a promotion, or a compliment.

It means staying the course that constantly asks you “What type of a person do you want to be?” and then let no one deter you.

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