The actress is no helicopter mom.  She wants her children to suffer a little “benign neglect”:

• Letting kids be bored and figure out what to do.
• Trying things without a parent hovering over them.
• Building resilience by letting them fail but giving them a helping hand to get up and try again.
• Being 100% present when focused on time together or absent for they can get involved in something else.
• Be ready to step in immediately on matters of bullying and safety.

Once again, you gain control by letting go in all types of relationships including a little “benign neglect”.