One of my friends is kind of irked at parents who arrange a play date for their children and then cancel at the last moment leaving a bunch of kids disappointed.

I feel a sense of obligation to answer all my email, keep my promises and show up for appointments.

Now that we can text and email, no need to even phone with excuses.

The same lack of consideration is evident for parties and events where people either don’t commit until the last moment or don’t show up when they commit.

I’m going to go on being as considerate as I can – so be careful, invite me to your parties and I’ll be there.

For everyone else who does not value the time of others, it’s one strike and you’re out.  Unfortunately we keep giving people the chance to be more considerate with the same disappointing results.

No more invitations.  No more play dates.

Live the life you want to live and set up boundaries for others who fail to value your time and show basic consideration.

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