When Someone Ruins Your Day

It happens.

You do all the right things to have a great day and then someone else rains on your parade.

Other people – including family, friends and, yes, employers – don’t get to make you unhappy without your permission.  Eleanor Roosevelt put it best when she said something similar — “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent” and that applies to making their daily drama YOUR daily drama.

  • Start with compassion —  “It’s too bad Jason has to take out his unhappiness on other people like me”.
  • Add resolve – “I’m putting a stop/loss on his negative behavior before it goes any further”.
  • End with a positive – “My day and my life is not on autopilot.  It is in my hands and I choose to keep enjoying every minute”.

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