A friend of mine in the radio industry wrote me the most beautiful email about the ups and downs he has experienced in his life.
As he puts it: “My goal in life was to become a good father, husband, employee, now there is no employer, the kids have left the house and I am divorced”.
I wrote back: I wish I could take back all MY bad decisions and actions in life. The only problem is, these very irritations are what transforms us. We keep living by learning. No one’s life is right out of the box and ready to roll for an entire lifetime.
Pain is transformational.
Bumps in the road are building blocks.
We learn humility as a result of our arrogance.
Everything happens for a reason. We are not always privy to what that reason is so patience, faith and good works are what keeps us going down the road to success and happiness.
Adversity introduces a person to him or herself and to those around them.
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I understand the feelings your friend has…I had some similar ones myself for a while. But a friend of mine pointed something out to me…I was a good son, father, husband, employee. People were happy with me and my delivery of those elements until thy were done with me. Wasn’t my choice, can’t control others. But you have every right and reason to claim credit for the good you were, even if things have changed now. I have to admit that I’ve gotten more self-centered (I hate to use the word selfish) in some ways, but I’ve learned to give from the heart and not worry about the future. If it makes me feel good to share/care, then I’ll do it as much for the selfish gratification as for how it will help someone else. Love and enjoy your life, and take credit for the good you’ve done. Don’t let others manipulate your feeling and happiness! :)